Marriage and prison are the two easiest places to fight. If you are married, or in prison, you will know this to be true. I’m afraid I can’t help you regarding conflict during incarceration, but I can offer some tips for those locked in matrimony. The key to successfully navigating conflict in marriage is learning how to fight fair.
Marriage is like a job that you work at. Sometimes you have problems. The real danger starts when you have the same last name. If you are not trying to date anymore (when you are typically on your best behavior), the smallest of disagreements can flare into a double-digit married fight in a hurry. Note – there are two types of fights in marriage. There is the disagreement, which is like a planned fight, and the spontaneous fight, which can erupt at any time (who brought home this chocolate milk?!!!). The following useful tips
can be applied to both. First, you want to avoid having things blow up in blistering anger. Any kind of fight is a threat. Our brains can be hijacked when we perceive a threat. This is where the danger lies. When facing a threat, we tend to react emotionally and either fight, flee, or freeze. This happens when our amygdala kicks in and stress producing hormones flood our system causing a physical response. The amygdala is a small, almond-shaped structure in the brain’s temporal lobe that is part of the limbic system. It’s involved in processing emotional input, especially fear.
Devine Learning Academy graduated its biggest class yet in a ceremony that took place at 6:30 p.m. on Monday, August 19. Twenty-two students received their high school diplomas, with plans for university, military service, and careers ahead of them. Jodie Dzierzanowski, the DAEP Principal spoke at the ceremony, commending the perseverance of the graduating class. “What I like to say is ‘life happened’ and it got them off track,” Dzierzanowski said. She discussed how students had shown a good deal of initiative in this program, since it must be sought out and balanced with the other responsibilities. DLA was started by Devine ISD in 2020 to help young people who were unable to complete high school due to missing credits. It is designed to be flexible, functioning as an online-charter hybrid school. It is free for students living in Devine ISD, though it is still available to other districts with tuition fees.
August 9 14:49PM – Complainant on Teel Dr reported hearing gun shots in area coming from blue jeep between house of 0400-0700. Requesting extra patrol. 17:35PM – Complainant on Teel Dr advised male seen on camera stealing a wallet. 18:00PM – Complainant on Lucas Ave called in reference to a green suburban parked outside her house. Unable to locate. 20:44PM – Report of a possible disturbance on Davis Ave called in by a third party. Made contact with residents. All okay. August 10 11:27AM – Complainant on Libold Dr called in reference to white truck parked out in front of property. Male ID’d by police, stated resident owes him money. Subject departed. August 11 14:45PM – Complainant on Teel Dr advised male on property causing disturbance with employees. Male left property. 22:47PM – Officer dispatched to Harralton Cir for incident occurring between 1930 and 2000 hours.
Monday, August 12 12:15 AM – Assist Atascosa County Sheriff’s Office – 6200 Blk. FM 3175 – Officers responded outside the city limits of Lytle to assist with a family disturbance. 12:25 AM – Main St. @ Somerset St. – Officers responded to a report of a female passed out but could not locate her. 8:22 AM – 16000 Blk. Cabana Dr. (Rosewood Estates) – Officer responded to the report of a stolen Bobcat Skid-Steer valued at $14,000 between 8/10/2024 to 8/12/2024. 9:45 AM – Assist Bexar County Sheriff’s Office –14900 Blk. Main St. – Officer responded to the report of a female who was assaulted in Bexar County. 10:00 AM – 18900 Blk. FM 2790 – Officers attended the Lytle ISD Staff Convocation. 4:00 PM – 19300 Blk. McDonald St. – Officer met with a complainant who said their vehicle was struck by a hit-and-run driver between 1:00 PM – 3:00 PM. 8:55 PM – Main St. @ FM 2790 – Officer assisted in changing a flat tire. 9:30 PM – 14800 Blk. Main St. – Officer responded to the report of a bat in the store.
Matthew 5:4 “Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.” I pray that you are doing well so far this week. As always, I encourage you to get into the word of God on a daily basis. Have you read your Bible today? If not why not? It only takes a few minutes to read a whole chapter. In Luke 4:4 Jesus said, “…it is written, that man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word of God.” Let us also continue to pray for our nation’s defenders and our first responders. And please pray for rain! Our question for the week is; “Where in the Bible will I find gods and earrings hidden under an oak?”
Administrator David Jordan, Mayor Butch Cook and the council re-examined the issue after seeking another professional opinion.
By Anton Riecher In a major change of direction, the Devine City Council voted to repair an existing ground water storage tank near Warhorse Stadium for $600,000 rather than replace it at a cost of $2.5 million as previously planned. On a motion made by District 3 Council Member Jeff Miller, seconded by District 2 Council Member Michael Hernandez, the council voted 4-1 to repair the tank. District 5 Council Member Debbie Randall was alone in her opposition to the plan. The council spent much of the August 6 special session rehashing the arguments for and against replacing the 72-year-old structure that serves as the city’s largest water storage facility. Mayor Butch Cook summarized the issue prior to the council vote. “We have a company that believes (the tank) can be brought back to life and last many years, saving a couple of million dollars,” he said. “And then we also have another opinion that believes we need a completely new one.” City Engineer J.R. Garcia of Garcia and Wright Engineering made his position against the repair effort abundantly clear. After the tank’s deteriorating condition was noted in recent inspections the city reached out to various tank building companies, he said.
“Almost all of them said that they wouldn’t even touch the tank,” Garcia said. “It’s too dangerous. The structure is unstable. However, subsequent to the council decision to sell $2.5 million in certificates of obligations last April to fund the replacement of the tank one company has come forward with a $600,000 repair plan to extend the life of the existing welded steel tank at least 30 more years. The council vote in favor of the repair project calls for the remaining $1.9 million to be invested in other water infrastructure projects. In March, the council voted to enter into a $108,340 contract with McGuire Water of Sioux Falls, ND, to make stopgap repairs on the existing until completion of the then proposed new tank. In support of his motion, Miller said the experts agreed that years of neglect led to the deterioration of the tank. “Personally, I feel like if it’s maintained properly after repairs it will last much longer,” he said. “Maybe, when the city’s in a better position 20 years from now” it can be replaced. Supporting the repair plan, District 5 Council Member Josh Ritchey said it would be worth it even if the benefits were relatively short term. “Maybe we don’t get another 30 or 50 years out of it,” he said. “Maybe we get another 10 or 20 years. Spread that out to $2 million to $5 million, whatever it inflates to, I feel much more comfortable with that.” Randall said the tank’s advance age made the repair effort questionable. She proposed proceeding with the new construction in addition to repairing the existing tank to further increase local storage. “In another seven years I’d much rather have something that’s going to last much longer than just another 30 years,” she said. Randall said she understood that the new tank had already been ordered and was in the process of being manufactures. But Garcia said he had previously been instructed to put the project on hold with the plans only 70 percent complete. He presented the council with photographs of the tank interior showing the walls to be rusted and corroded. Some of the corrosion has actually pierced the steel walls. “You have to remember these pictures are from two years ago,” he said. District 4 Council Member Josh Ritchey countered Garcia’s argument. The company backing the repair plan said the steel walls were in excellent condition with only minor pitting, he said. But the company agreed with others evaluating the tank that the roof would need much more extensive repair. Garcia also argued that repairing the tank will mean draining it, leaving the city without a pressurized water system due to lack of other significant water storage. “I almost feel that it’s an emergency situation,” Garcia said. “You really need a tank right now because you don’t have a backup plan.” However, Mayor Cook said the company making the repair proposal has devised a backup system that will allow the water system to remain pressurized while the tank is empty. Mayor Cook said the repair of the tank would have to be rebid at some future date. During a budget workshop preceding the special session City Treasurer Denise Duffy told the council that the Medina Central Appraisal District had issued the city a no-new-revenue tax rate of $.5277 per $100 valuation. The current city tax rate is $.5553 per $100 valuation. “Well, actually, that’s encouraging,” Mayor Cook said. The no-new-revenue tax rate enables the public to evaluate the relationship between taxes for the prior year and for the current year based on a tax rate that would produce the same amount of taxes if applied to the same properties taxed both years. “It is supposed to be what rate brings in the same amount of tax money you had the previous year,” Cook said. A quick calculation revealed the voter-approval rate is $.6231 per $100 valuation. The voter-approval rate is the sum of the maintenance and operation tax rate plus a 3.5 percent increase. If the council adopts a rate that exceeds the mandatory tax election rate it must hold an automatic election. Total value still under protest or not certified is estimated at $9.4 million, Duffy said. Miller, Ritchey and Randall all stanchly opposed any tax increase. “We need to show some meaningful improvements before we start asking for significant amounts of more money from folks,” Ritchey said. Hernandez said that “if we want to better our city and bring more money in we may have to.” Mayor Cook warned that it is still very early in the budget process for next year. As a first step in that process City Administrator David Jordan said he is proposing a six percent salary increase for city employees making less than $40,000. “We currently have 14 employees in that tax bracket,” Jordan said. “There are six vacancies in that bracket.” Ritchey said he is on record as opposing cost of living increases. However, “pay leveling” may be necessary to attract new city employees. “Clearly, based on the number of vacancies we have in public works we’re not paying enough to retain them,” Ritchey said. Jordan also said he would be proposing increasing the city’s minimum wage from $17 an hour to $20 an hour for workers with more than two years on the city payroll. He also proposed increasing the city’s contribution to the Texas Municipal Retirement System from six percent with a 1½-to-1 match to seven percent with a 2-to-1 match. A presentation by Frost Insurance agent Ernest Munoz on renewal options for medical, dental, vision and life noted that the city’s loss ratio for employees has stabilized enough that he is negotiating with Cigna Healthcare to limit the expected increase to 10.9 percent. The national average increase in health renew is 18 percent. During the special session, a motion by Miller in support of a proposal by Jordan to replace the position of city attorney, city engineer and IT specialist with a list of recommended vendors was rejected in a narrow 2-2 vote with Mayor Cook casting the tie-breaker. District 1 Council Member Ray Gonzales seconded the motion and voted in favor of it while Hernandez and Randall voted against it. Randall said the proposal would invest too much authority in the city administrator regarding vendors to be considered. Miller then submitted an amended motion allowing the city council to retain authority to add names to the vendors list. This motion passed 4-1 with Randall again opposing the action. The council then voted 4-1 to accept the vendors list submitted by Jordan. Randall again voted to oppose. Regarding the Devine airport, Jordan announced that airport manager Vickie Pumphrey had resigned and that public works had taken charge of operating the airport fuel farm until a replacement is hired. In other action, the council voted to pay for completed construction at the airport using Routine Airport Maintenance Program (RAMP) grant funds. The Texas Department of Transportation administers RAMP which matches local government grants up to $100,000 for airport maintenance.
Medina County will have a public hearing on August 26 at 9 AM in the Medina County Courthouse Annex located in the Commissioner’s Court room in Hondo. The current proposed budget will increase the budget by $3.7 million compared to last year. Increasing property taxes from higher appraisals accounts for much of it, as well as new property added to the tax roll with the massive growth Medina County is seeing. A majority of County leaders received raises this year. Raises and travel expenses for county leaders in this year’s budget can be seen in the public notice on page 7. How growth has impacted the county… Experts cite population growth and increased development as one of the reasons property taxes have skyrocketed in areas like ours. The rapid influx of people and expansion of communities requires additional infrastructure, amenities, and services to meet the growing needs.
Many of the developers costs are offset by tax incentives called TIRZ zones in Medina County. The first major development in the Castroville area, Potranco Ranch, included tax incentives for developers called a TIRZ zone. When we checked last summer, under the TIRZ agreement offered by Medina County commissioners, Potranco Ranch’s developers was projected to receive a total Reimbursement Amount of over $12 million dollars ($12,295,461) over a 30 year period. As of May 2024, so far the county had remitted $1.9 million to developers of Potranco Ranch developers. So for example, in 2024 of the $751K projected property tax revenue in the zone, an amount of $516K was to be paid back to developers, while the county was projected to recieve $221K of the $751K collected. And that is just the amount of money that has been remitted to one of the 4 TIRZ zones in the county. As reported in May, with Medina County farms and ranches being subdivided rapidly, land being used for agriculture decreased by over 15,600 acres in one year (2023-2024). The amount of ag land lost last year is more than the amount of agriculture land lost than in the previous five years combined. At the same time, land used for residential increased by over 15,500 acres in Medina County in the same 1-year time period (2023-2024). The number of homes in Medina County has grown from18,791 homes in 2017 to 25,938 in 2024 (as of May), according to Medina County Chief Appraiser Johnette Dixon, who provided the sobering facts and figures. According to Dixon, Medina County also saw a 237% increase in net Taxable Value from 2017 to 2024 (as of May). The increase is due to new industrial properties, new developments, and the overall market in general, she said. Average Home values: Average home values in Medina County had jumped by $41,000+ in just two year’s time as seen in the chart below (info as of May 2024). 2022 – $253,805 2023 – $295,180 2024- $295,475 (as of May 2024) NOTE: You may notice other public hearings such as the one for ESD4. That is a separate taxing entity, as Medina County does not provide its own emergency ambulance service or fire services. Each ESD in the county is responsible for taxing and providing ambulance and fire service to their respective communities.
Don’t miss out on the Driscoll Public Library’s exciting end of summer event. The George S Woods Community Center will be transformed into a prehistoric museum! The museum will be open 10 am – 5 pm Friday, August 16. The Dinosaur George Traveling Museum is one of the largest traveling prehistoric exhibits in North America. The museum showcases a diverse range of prehistoric creatures with a primary focus on dinosaurs. From massive dinosaur skulls to intricate fossil replicas, you’ll be able to view exhibit pieces from around the world and from every time period. In addition to dinosaurs, see other fascinating prehistoric animals such as fish and mammals providing a comprehensive view of Earth’s history. You will also have an opportunity to visit the Dinosaur George Gift Shop where you will be able to purchase your very own fossils, minerals, etcetera.
This event is a “come and go” event meaning the items will be on display the entire day and guests are invited to attend at their leisure. The event is open to all ages no reservations required. We do ask that if you plan to attend with a group larger than 10 that you call and let the library staff know the number in your group so that we can better serve you. For more information or questions please call 830.663.2993. Dinosaur George grew up in Hondo and graduated in 1980. Here’s a short bio: George Blasing (Dinosaur George) is a self-taught paleontologist who has studied and excavated dinosaurs, and other prehistoric life, for more than 45 years. He is a public speaker, author and television writer. He also owns a traveling fossil museum that brings the prehistoric world to young people and adults across the United States. He currently owns a museum located in Traders Village in San Antonio Texas where he is often found teaching visitors about the numerous exhibit items. The Dinosaur George Museum has one of the most extensive dinosaurs exhibits in Texas. His podcast, Dinosaur George Kids, is dedicated to teaching young people about dinosaurs and other prehistoric life. The podcast is heard in over 180 countries and boasts a listening audience of over 1 million people around the world. Dinosaur George is also an animal behaviorist, studying modern animals and comparing their behavior to animals of the past.
By Kathleen Calame Publisher, The Devine News The Medina County ESD4 which provides emergency medical services ( EMS) to Devine, Natalia , Pearson and parts of Lytle is wanting to increase taxes by 2.85 cents per $100 value which computes to an increase change of 57% over last year’s tax rate according to a public notice they published last week. Tax on an average homestead will have a change increase of $64 ($87.94 +64.35= $152.29) or 73% increase it explains. The need for more tax money comes even after the ESD started receiving the additional extra sales tax money that voters approved last year, approximately $10,000 per month. The checks have been rolling in monthly since February 2024, $61,000 in the first half of the year. It was thought that with the extra sales tax combined with the money they have been setting aside in accounts for major investments, the ESD would be able to start their own ambulance service in Devine themselves and start building a new station in Natalia. Apparently it isn’t enough for the visions planned, so back to the taxpayers. Many years ago Devine had their own ambulances and volunteers and billed for services but couldn’t make it financially.
Then the ESD4 was created which is taxpayer funded. At various points the ESD ran the service themselves with donated ambulances. Later hired Medina Valley EMS/ being run by Mike Ferris. MVEMS was contracted at that time by MCESD-1 (Castroville), 3 (Hondo) and 4 (Devine/Natalia) with the name Medina County EMS on the side of the ambulances. That venture failed and was investigated. Next the ESD4 turned to contracting it out to large private companies first it was Acadian, then AMR, then Allegiance. The ambulances and supplies were given to the private business owners of Acadian to use as they wish as they were the new contractor to provide EMS services for MCESD4. The ESD kept the building and still owns it today. Currently Allegiance uses the building for their employees and ambulances, and is our current provider, at a cost of $210,000 yearly (2023 rate) until the ESD launches their own in less than 7 weeks as planned. Allegiance provides us with two 24 hour ambulances (one in Devine 24 hours, and the other 24 hour ambulance splits time with 12 hours in Natalia during daytime and then around 6 pm moves back to Devine for the evening hours.) The hope for a third truck has been on the horizon for many years, but the community was told there was not enough funds for a third ambulance. We can only hope the new service will have the funds for a third ambulance. More money, more service? An employee hiring fair was hosted in July. ESD4 plans to launch their own ambulance service October 1 instead of using a contractor like they have for many years. The announcement was made months ago. A director of operations was hired a few months ago. So ambulances must be bought or rented, supplies purchased, employees hired, accounting programs bought, employee benefits set up etc. All the things a business must do to get started with its own human resources and equipment to do the job. Since it is a taxpayer funded service, the board can increase or decrease taxes yearly to meet their needs up to a maximum tax rate of 10 cents per $100 value. The percentage of increase determines whether or not an election must be held. The ESD plans to charge customers for the service calls to help with expenses as well. An election is not required this time, just a public hearing since the tax isn’t higher than the “de mimimis rate” of .0785 per $100 value. The Public Hearing on the Tax Increase will be on August 20, 2024 at 6:30 p.m. at the Devine EMS building, 206 Dixon Dr, Devine, Tx. Citizens will be allowed at the public hearing to voice their concerns about the tax rate and increase and ask questions. (See medinacountyesd4.org for the Public Notice of the Hearing for additional details, audits and reports.) Board members are Anthony Martin, Viola Potter, Juan Zamora and George Moralez. There is a seat open as Shelly Watson resigned in July from the board. Christy Merendon is the District Coordinator. “We need the extra 2 cents to start the EMS,” said President of ESD4 Tony Martin. “ Since initiating the Emergency Service District (ESD) #4, the goal of all commissioner’s has been to provide the people in our service area the availability of the best medical care at a fair cost. In working towards this having our own Emergency Medical Service (EMS) is a positive action in lieu of having a contract with a private service. As with starting any business there are costs involved with the start-up, but our long-term goal remains steadfast to offer the best for the people in the community,” Martin said. Another project they are looking to fund is a new EMS station to be built in Natalia, a two story building with an elevator. It would serve as the second location for the EMS crews and ambulances. Currently they use part of the fire department property courtesy of the Natalia VFD during the daytime. If you know of someone interested in being on the board contact any of the board members or President Tony Martin at 210-367-1295 or email him at president@medinacountyesd4.org If you have questions or concerns about the tax increase or what changes the ESD is planning, attend the August 20 meeting at 6:30 pm in the EMS building. Come to the meeting if you would like to know what the new plans are for EMS service. Many people have volunteered for years to keep the service going and know the importance of this next step. Concerns or questions can be sent by email to: president@medinacountyesd4.org